ios: rework incognito mode - choose when making connection (#2851)
* wip
* layout
* more layout
* fix focus
* show incognito
* change icon layout
* remove presentation detents
* smaller button icon
* bigger icon
* show incognito profile status in connection info, layout, icons
* fix some lint warnings, update labels, add incognito label, conditionally hide toolbar to avoid jumping on iOS 17
* remove ignored color
* s/incognitoEnabled/incognito/
* shorter text
* remove parameter label
* restore note when creating a group
* add incognito icon to pending connections
* refactor
* refactor chat list action sheet
* revert to using new value in onChange
* remove unused variable
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Co-authored-by: Evgeny Poberezkin <2769109+epoberezkin@users.noreply.github.com>
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