Some custom list tables override enough methods for the column definition fallback to never kick in, so let's ensure that toggling columns only applies when a primary column is defined in some way. We also need to show a toggle button when we can when there are no row actions.
props Chouby, obenland, ocean90.
fixes#33313.
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