DEV: Debug AR connection pool queue on CI (#25687)

Why this change?

On CI, we have been seeing flaky system tests because ActiveRecord is
unable to checkout a connection. This patch is meant to help us debug
which thread is not returning the connection to the queue.

lib/freedom_patches/debug_connection_queue.rb

@@ -0,0 +1,40 @@
+# frozen_string_literal: true
+
+if ENV["DEBUG_AR_CONNECTION_QUEUE"] == "1"
+  module QueuePatch
+    # Add +element+ to the queue.  Never blocks.
+    def add(element)
+      puts "::group::##{Process.pid} Adding element to the queue"
+      puts Thread.current.backtrace.first(30).join("\n")
+      puts "::endgroup::"
+      super
+    end
+
+    # If +element+ is in the queue, remove and return it, or +nil+.
+    def delete(element)
+      puts "::group::##{Process.pid} Delete element from the queue"
+      puts Thread.current.backtrace.first(30).join("\n")
+      puts "::endgroup::"
+      super
+    end
+
+    # Remove all elements from the queue.
+    def clear
+      puts "::group::##{Process.pid} Clear all elements from the queue"
+      puts Thread.current.backtrace.first(30).join("\n")
+      puts "::endgroup::"
+      super
+    end
+
+    private
+
+    def remove
+      puts "::group::##{Process.pid} Removing element from the queue"
+      puts Thread.current.backtrace.first(30).join("\n")
+      puts "::endgroup::"
+      super
+    end
+  end
+
+  ActiveRecord::ConnectionAdapters::ConnectionPool::Queue.prepend(QueuePatch)
+end