Fixes#4645
This is something that never worked (even in legacy graphs), but as we
push forward towards encouraging multi-provider usage especially with
things like the Vault data source, I want to make sure we have this
right for 0.8.
When you have a config like this:
```
resource "foo_type" "name" {}
provider "bar" { attr = "${foo_type.name.value}" }
resource "bar_type" "name" {}
```
Then the destruction ordering MUST be:
1. `bar_type`
2. `foo_type`
Since configuring the client for `bar_type` requires accessing data from
`foo_type`. Prior to this PR, these two would be done in parallel. This
properly pushes forward the dependency.
There are more cases I want to test but this is a basic case that is
fixed.
