This enables the shadow graph since all tests pass!
We also change the destroy node to check the resource type using the
addr since that is always available and reliable. The configuration can
be nil for orphans.
This doesn't explicitly set `rs.Provider` on destroy nodes.
To be honest, I'm not sure why this was done in the first place (git
blame points to 6fda7bb5483a155b8ae1e1e4e4b7b7c4073bc1d9). Tests always
passed without it, and by adding it it causes other tests to fail. I
should've never changed those other tests.
Removing it now to get tests passing, this also reverts the test changes
made in 8213824962f085279810f04b60b95d1176a3a3f2.
