Fixes#10338
The destruction step for a resource was included the deposed resources
for _all_ resources with that name (ignoring the "index"). For example:
`aws_instance.foo.0` was including destroying deposed for
`aws_instance.foo.1`.
This changes the config to the deposed transformer to properly include
that index.
This change includes a larger change of changing `stateId` to include
the index. This affected more parts but was ultimately the issue in
question.
