prebuilt oneTBB binaries for ARM64 (#16904)

* use oneTBB for arm64

* force THREADING=TBB

* test: remove TBB_DIR for linux arm64

* update linux and mac arm64 packages

* update SHA256

* add comment

* disable add_rpath for tbb libraries on mac arm64

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Co-authored-by: Chen Peter <peter.chen@intel.com>

src/bindings/python/wheel/setup.py

@@ -290,6 +290,11 @@ class PrepareLibs(build_clib):
                 install_dir = os.path.join(install_prefix, install_dir)
             # set rpath if applicable
             if sys.platform != "win32" and comp_data.get("rpath"):
+                # after tbb libraries on mac arm64 are signed, setting rpath for them will report error:
+                # LC_SEGMENT_64 command 3 fileoff field plus filesize field extends past the end of the file
+                if comp == "tbb_libs" and ARCH == "arm64" and sys.platform == "darwin":
+                    continue
+
                 for path in filter(
                     lambda x: any(item in ([".so"] if sys.platform == "linux" else [".dylib", ".so"])
                                   for item in x.suffixes), Path(install_dir).glob("*"),