Use FindPython3.cmake (#19847)

* Use FindPython3.cmake

* Fixed compilation on macOS 14 with new core development tools

* Try to use Python3_SOABI instead of PYTHON_MODULE_EXTENSION

* Use Development.Module

* Keep specifying only Python3_EXECUTABLE

* Print PYTHON_MODULE_EXTENSION

* Added check for minimal cmake version for python API

* Returned Python3_INCLUDE_DIR for cross-compilation case

* Try to allow cmake older than 3.18

* Use build python interpreter to check cython dependency

* revert changes in .ci/openvino-onnx/Dockerfile

* removed unused code

* Fixed issue with variables scope

* Experiment: remove include dirs

* Corrected docs

* Use pybind11 function to set extension

* Revert "Experiment: remove include dirs"

This reverts commit 6f7f90211c.

* Refactor ConvolutionBackpropDataLayerTest, ConvolutionLayerTest, DeformableConvolutionLayerTest (#19810)

* Refactor ConvolutionBackpropDataLayerTest

* Refactor ConvolutionLayerTest

* Refactor DeformableConvolutionLayerTest

* Apply comments

* Apply comments

* Fix

* Updated minimum cmake version for Windows

* Simplified check

* Removed useless message status

* Use puiblic option

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Co-authored-by: Oleg Pipikin <oleg.pipikin@intel.com>

docs/dev/build_linux.md

@@ -72,11 +72,9 @@ You can use the following additional build options:
      ```sh
      pip install -r requirements-dev.txt
      ```
-  2. Enable the `-DENABLE_PYTHON=ON` option in the CMake step above (Step 4). To specify an exact Python version, use the following options:
+  2. Enable the `-DENABLE_PYTHON=ON` option in the CMake step above (Step 4). To specify an exact Python version, use the following options (requires cmake 3.16 and higher):
      ```
-     -DPYTHON_EXECUTABLE=`which python3.8` \
-     -DPYTHON_LIBRARY=/usr/lib/x86_64-linux-gnu/libpython3.8.so \
-     -DPYTHON_INCLUDE_DIR=/usr/include/python3.8
+     -DPython3_EXECUTABLE=/usr/bin/python3.8
      ```
   3. To build a wheel package (.whl), enable the `-DENABLE_WHEEL=ON` option in the CMake step above (Step 4), and install requirements:
      ```sh

docs/dev/build_raspbian.md

@@ -43,9 +43,7 @@ git clone --recurse-submodules --single-branch --branch=master https://github.co
   via `pip3`, adding the following options:
    ```sh
    -DENABLE_PYTHON=ON \
-   -DPYTHON_EXECUTABLE=/usr/bin/python3.8 \
-   -DPYTHON_LIBRARY=/usr/lib/arm-linux-gnueabihf/libpython3.8.so \
-   -DPYTHON_INCLUDE_DIR=/usr/include/python3.8
+   -DPython3_EXECUTABLE=/usr/bin/python3.8
    ```
 
 ## See also

docs/dev/build_windows.md

@@ -55,11 +55,9 @@ Supported configurations:
       ```sh
       pip install -r <openvino>\src\bindings\python\src\compatibility\openvino\requirements-dev.txt
       ```
-  2. Second, enable the `-DENABLE_PYTHON=ON` in the CMake (Step #4) option above. To specify an exact Python version, use the following options:
+  2. Second, enable the `-DENABLE_PYTHON=ON` in the CMake (Step #4) option above. To specify an exact Python version, use the following options (requires cmake 3.16 and higher):
      ```sh
-     -DPYTHON_EXECUTABLE="C:\Program Files\Python11\python.exe" ^
-     -DPYTHON_LIBRARY="C:\Program Files\Python11\libs\python11.lib" ^
-     -DPYTHON_INCLUDE_DIR="C:\Program Files\Python11\include"
+     -DPython3_EXECUTABLE="C:\Program Files\Python11\python.exe"
      ```
   3. To build a wheel package (.whl), enable the `-DENABLE_WHEEL=ON` option in the CMake step above (Step 4), and install requirements:
      ```sh