fix(projections): handle reduce error by updating failed events (#10726)

# Which Problems Are Solved

I noticed that a failure in the projections handlers `reduce` function
(e.g. creating the statement or checking preconditions for the
statement) would not update the `failed_events2` table.
This was due to a wrong error handling, where as long as the
`maxFailureCount` was not reached, the error was returned after updating
the `failed_events2` table, which causes the transaction to be rolled
back and thus losing the update.

# How the Problems Are Solved

Wrap the error into an `executionError`, so the transaction is not
rolled back.

# Additional Changes

none

# Additional Context

- noticed internally
- requires backport to v3.x and v4.x

(cherry picked from commit ee92560f32)

internal/eventstore/handler/v2/statement.go

@@ -50,7 +50,7 @@ func (h *Handler) eventsToStatements(tx *sql.Tx, events []eventstore.Event, curr
 			if shouldContinue := h.handleFailedStmt(tx, failureFromEvent(event, err)); shouldContinue {
 				continue
 			}
-			return statements, err
+			return statements, &executionError{err}
 		}
 		offset++
 		if !previousPosition.Equal(event.Position()) {